It can be much easier and quicker to solve problems for our children: zipping up coats, choosing their clothes and even solving sibling disputes.
However, solving problems for our children instead of letting them navigate problems on their own robs them of the opportunity to overcome frustration, brainstorm solutions, and be filled with the pride that comes from solving a problem on their own. Be nearby to offer support and guidance by summarizing and asking questions. “Looks like you feel angry that your brother has your toy. What can you tell him? How do you feel? How can you solve this problem?” It can be very time consuming in the beginning but imagine your children no longer needing a referee to solve every problem! The confidence they build from knowing they can solve their own problems can build self-esteem too. Tags: Independence, Self-Regulation, Self-Esteem
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AuthorMiss Nicole is the Social Worker for the Early Childhood Program in Arlington Heights, Illinois. Categories
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